And How is This Useful?
Last time I described how an Inner Guide can give you answers to unresolved questions you may have about yourself. (And I've previously described how it does that by means of finger signals, automatic handwriting, and inner thought.) It can also provide answers to questions we have about other people.
An Inner Guide Can Detect Their Feelings
A co-worker at a clinic I worked at appeared to be somewhat stiff and humorless. Why did this matter to me? It caused me to feel mildly uneasy when he was nearby. It occurred to me that my Inner Guide might know what was going on with him, so I asked her. She told me that he was significantly depressed. How did this help? I no longer needed to wonder what was going on with him, and my uneasiness lessened.
It Can Detect Stimulus Levels
An acquaintance didn't seem to remember things that I told her. After a particularly annoying interaction with her, I thought to ask my Inner Guide why she kept forgetting things. My Inner Guide told me that she wasn't forgetting; she had never registered these things in the first place. She had a need to protect herself from stimulation due to a chaotic upbringing that had caused chronic negative overstimulation. This helped me to be patient with her when I needed to re-explain things to her.
It Can Detect Character Traits
A friend's housekeeper was very sweet and helpful, and did extra tasks above and beyond what was required. But my friend had noticed that there was a period of time during which various items disappeared from her household. Was this sweet woman a thief? My Inner Guide informed me that this woman had Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly called Multiple Personality Disorder), and I explained this to my friend. Her host personality was lovely but an angry personality had stolen things. As this behavior had stopped, my friend didn't confront her but allowed her to stay on, as she valued the host personality's character and helpfulness.
How Does an Inner Guide Know All This?
We subliminally register other people's feelings, stimulus levels, and character traits. Because an Inner Guide, by definition, has no discomforts, it has no mental static interfering with its ability to perceive stimuli. This allows it access to all of our subliminal perceptions.
Volunteering Information vs. Answering Our Questions
When it knows that we need knowledge about a situation, it will volunteer that information. I've mentioned before that one of the first things my Inner Guide told me was that a person I was talking with was lying to me. But when our need to know is not crucial, our Inner Guide doesn't want to interfere with our thinking and our activities, but will answer questions when asked.
I find my Inner Guide to be invaluable and I'd love for you to have one, too. You can acquire your own Inner Guide with my course, Achieving Emotional Comfort®, which is available at: