For Some, Giving is Problematic
Giving to others can be very pleasurable, but often it is not so because it is done in an unsuccessful attempt to solve one's own problem. For instance, some people have developed a habit of giving to others as a way of trying to solve a chronic discomfort they have. They may have been told, in childhood, that they were selfish and are trying to disprove that. Or they may have been taught that it is more blessed to give than to receive, and feel compelled to follow that dictum at their own expense. They don't feel pleasure in giving; in fact they often feel quite drained because their giving is effortful.
What Makes Giving Pleasurable
When our own discomforts and problems have been successfully dealt with, the stimuli that emanate from them greatly diminish. They no longer fill our awareness. It then becomes possible for a variety of other perceptions to be attended to.
We become increasingly able to fully enjoy the pleasures of life. Our minds are uncontaminated with the "mental static" that comes from discomforts and problems. We can enjoy the increased clarity of our thinking and our increased creativity. We can more fully enjoy other people; however, our increased perceptiveness also enables us to be more fully in tune with their problems and needs. Helping them is effortless and therefore can give us great pleasure.
How Can This State Be Achieved?
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